守株待兔shǒu zhū dài tùto wait idly for luck instead of working
Used to criticize passive waiting, blind repetition of a lucky accident, or expecting success without effort or adaptation.
- Best clue: life advice
- Tone: critical
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Open full entry以心换心yǐ xīn huàn xīnto win sincerity with sincerity
Used when someone treats others sincerely and expects sincerity, trust, or emotional openness in return.
- Best clue: friendship
- Tone: sincere and relational
- Register: common reflective and relational Chinese
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